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Fabien Male

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Profile last updated: 07 December 2008  

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Why should you get to know Fabien?

Friends have described me as good-natured, empathic, sensitive, intelligent and attractive, to which I would add demonstrative and affectionate. Wow, I sound great! Take it with a pinch of salt, if...

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Someone fun, kind, affectionate and inspiring (ie, motivated by ideals rather than career/power/wealth/etc.). We can't take ourselves too seriously, life can be hard enough, so being able to laugh...

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Country of origin: France
Location: Barnet (Finchley), London - Outer, England, United Kingdom
Gender: Male
Age: 34
Star sign: Libra
Height: 5' 8" (173cm)
Relationship status: Single
Looking for: Friends; Let's see what happens
Have children: Yes, not living with me
Want children: Maybe
Education: University
Occupation: Self-employed
 

About him

Country of origin: France
Location: Barnet (Finchley), London - Outer, England, United Kingdom
Gender: Male
Age: 34
Star sign: Libra
Height: 5' 8" (173cm)
Body type: Athletic
Appearance: Attractive
Hair colour: Dark Brown
Eye colour: Hazel
Relationship status: Single
Looking for: Friends; Let's see what happens
Have children: Yes, not living with me
Want children: Maybe
Daily diet: Eat most things
Smoking: Never
Drinking: Occasionally
Education: University
Occupation: Self-employed
Income: Enough
Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
First language: English
Other languages: French
Religion: Spiritual, but not religious
 

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Why should you get to know Fabien?

Friends have described me as good-natured, empathic, sensitive, intelligent and attractive, to which I would add demonstrative and affectionate. Wow, I sound great! Take it with a pinch of salt, if you think someone's flawless it's obvious you just don't know them well enough.

I want what I think everyone wants out of life, happiness. Thing is, I don't buy the idea that I can consume my way to it. Could use help with that. Friendship, intimacy, laughter, learning (being stretched), meaning, autonomy, self-respect and a little boy called Reuben are some of the most important things to me.

My idea of happiness is to belong and personal integrity is an important part of that I believe. I'm working on it.

My favourite place would be home, to me a state rather than a place.

My idea of a great time would be good food, wine and music, in good company. I enjoy cooking, but not so much when it's just for myself. I like going clubbing, to hear my DJ friends play at the odd Breakbeat night and dance the night away.

I want to improve my life by learning. Learning more about this world, about other people/cultures (though not a cultural relativist) and about myself. The last of those requires a certain degree of self-awareness, which I like to think I'm cultivating. I also want to become better at whatever I do and meaning is hugely important to me.

Not motivated by money or achieving high social status, though I like being able to afford the finer things in life.

He describes his ideal match thus:

Someone fun, kind, affectionate and inspiring (ie, motivated by ideals rather than career/power/wealth/etc.). We can't take ourselves too seriously, life can be hard enough, so being able to laugh at yourself is a must if we're going to get along.

Trust is paramount, I wouldn't settle for being with anything less than a genuine, trustworthy person. Hope I'm not being too demanding, I don't expect perfection either. Also, physical chemistry is a must for me - If I don't fancy you, what's the point? That said, you can never have too many friends.

 

His ideal match

Country of origin: Anywhere in the world
Location: (Moderately important) Within: 100 miles of post code district N3 (London)
Gender: Female
Aged: (Decidedly important) 27 - 34
Star sign: Any
Height: (Absolutely crucial) 5' 2" (157cm) - 5' 7" (171cm)
Body type: (Moderately important) Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Appearance: (Decidedly important) Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour: (Moderately important) Dark Brown; Auburn
Eye colour: Any
Has photo: Absolutely crucial
Has voice recording: Not at all important
Relationship status: Any
Have children: (Absolutely crucial) No
Want children: (Decidedly important) Yes; Maybe
Daily diet: Any
Smoking: (Decidedly important) Never; Occasionally
Drinking: Any
Education: Any
Occupation: Any
Income: Any
Ethnicity: (Moderately important) Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed
First language: (Moderately important) English; French
Other languages: Any
Religion: Any
 

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Valued qualities: Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Kindness; Patience; Humour; Chemistry
Intelligence: Intelligent
Ruled by: Heart
Party behaviour: An average mingler
Is it the thought that counts: Yes
Do they daydream: Sorry, I was miles away, what was the question?
Do they believe in monogamy: Yes
What's better, the carrot or the stick: Carrot
Body art: None; One piercing
Fashion sense: Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Music preferences: Classical; Electronic / Techno / Rave; Instrumental; Jazz; Rock; World
Reading: I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally
Books: Non-fiction
TV habits: I prefer listening to the radio
TV programmes: Documentaries; News; Comedy/Sit-coms
Film frequency: Once or twice a month
Film preferences: Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent
Current relationship: I'm single
Date activities: A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Sport involvement: Bored to death
Sports: Snorkeling; Squash; Surfing; Swimming; Weight training; Aerobics; Inline / Roller skating
Interests: Board games; Cooking; Healthy living; Music; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Politics; Voluntary work; Writing
Pace of life: Manageable
Cooking: I really enjoy cooking
Cuisine: French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Thai
Family contact: I rarely see them
Time online: I check in once a day
Animals: I like them well done
Consider attractive: Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair
Consider unattractive: Sarcasm
Would like to live: On a beach
Retirement plans: Doing voluntary work
Religious attendance: I'm non-practising
Politics: Liberal
How 'green' are you: Positive Chooser
Feelings about using Guardian Soulmates: Optimistic
Honesty: Very
 
 
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